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“My best memories as a child were fishing on Lake View with my Uncle Buddy! ”
1 of 20 | Posted by: George Kalergis - Montgomery, TX

“Hello birth mother, I am your daughter. You have reached out to me several times. I am ready to meet you if you wish to get in touch with me. ...Read More »
2 of 20 | Posted by: Kim Merrick - Worcester, MA

“Dear Kathy & Family, Thoughts and prayers continue to be with all of you, especially during these difficult times. I am happy to hear that Mr....Read More »
3 of 20 | Posted by: Sue Morin - Camp Zama

“To; Barbara,Kathy,Paul,Tara,Debbie, I'am very sorry to hear about Stan,I was thinking about the times we use to get together and have those...Read More »
4 of 20 | Posted by: Suzanne Gabriel - Nashua, NH

“I’ve taken tennis lessons from Bud on and off during the past 10 summers. Bud was far more than a tennis instructor – he took a personal...Read More »
5 of 20 | Posted by: Rob Posniak - Nashua, NH

“Kathy, My sister Kelly (Brown) had sent me the notice about your father. My condolences to you and your family. I will never forget your father...Read More »
6 of 20 | Posted by: Randa (Brown) Welker - Flint, MI

“Barbara and extended family, I'm sorry for your loss. While I have not talked with Stan since I was a teenager, I've never forgotten the way he went...Read More »
7 of 20 | Posted by: John Hill - Pembroke, NH

“Barb & family, Sending my deepest sympathy. Loving memories will last forever. Fondly, Tammi Secord ”
8 of 20 | Posted by: Tamara Secord - Newport Beach, CA

“I answered an advertisement for tennis lessons about 10 years ago. I’ve been taking weekly lessons each season with Bud ever since. Ours was...Read More »
9 of 20 | Posted by: Kelly Winn - Nashua, NH

“Bud was my tennis coach and teacher for over 15 years. His love of teaching showed in his attention to the details of tennis mechanics and in the...Read More »
10 of 20 | Posted by: Roy Hugenberger - Nashua, NH

“Bud helped coach my youngest daughter, Laura Klein from Merrimack - Laura and I really enjoyed the time we spent with him. Laura played "No. 1" for a...Read More »
11 of 20 | Posted by: Bill Klein - Bedford, NH

“I was deeply saddened to learn of Uncle Buddy's passing. Although we have not kept in touch over the years I have many fond memories of my Uncle. My...Read More »
12 of 20 | Posted by: Sandy Mejias - Alexandria, VA

“Barbara, We're so sorry for your loss. I hope your strong faith will help you and your family get through this difficult time. We love you! ...Read More »
13 of 20 | Posted by: Pati Choi - Nashua, NH

“I will miss you my good friend, and I know that you will be looking down upon us in the Fellowsip and the Circle of Friends that we sare. I will...Read More »
14 of 20 | Posted by: Donald Maslbas - Milford, NH

“When we think of Stan, we smile. We knew him as always kind, thoughtful and a good man. Our thoughts and prayers are with family and loved ones....Read More »
15 of 20 | Posted by: Steve and Tammy Blais - UT

“My love and sympathy to all of you. I will forever remember Stan as the "seeker"- looking to find the answers to the questions we all ask in this...Read More »
16 of 20 | Posted by: Janice Leonard Morrow - FL

“You touched many, many of us for many, many years. We know that you have taken your light into another room but are grateful you lit the way for so...Read More »
17 of 20 | Posted by: Paul and Molly Grace Hayden - NH

“A great man who taught us about life and love. His wisdom will be with us forever. ”
18 of 20 | Posted by: Sid Grace - Nashua, NH

“Sister Butler and family, We can't express enough what Brother Butler and your family have meant to us over the years. We pray that you find peace...Read More »
19 of 20 | Posted by: Mary (Morrow) Finocchiaro - NH

“Barbara and family - my thoughts and prayers go out to all of you. Bud was a wonderful person and I have very fond memories of you from when we were...Read More »
20 of 20 | Posted by: Joanne Lowrey McKenney - Lawrence, MA

Stanley Frank "Bud" Butler, 83, of Nashua, NH, died June 11, 2009 at the Lahey Clinic Hospital in Burlington, MA. He was born on September 3, 1925, the son of Stanley and Matilda (Oberchurcher) Butler and had been a NH resident for over thirty years. He was a World War II Navy Veteran and was awarded the Purple Heart. For most of his career, he was a car salesman and had retired from Dobles Chevrolet in Manchester, NH. He was also a private tennis instructor for over 20 years and was actively involved with the AA Program for 43 years. He will be missed by those he helped and all who loved him Survivors include his wife of 41 years, Barbara (Lynch) Butler; a son, Paul Butler and his wife Audra of Litchfield, NH; five daughters, Faye Hale and her husband Robert, and Lorraine Loring and he husband Tim all of Newburyport, MA, Kathleen Barlow and her husband Brad of Milford, NH, Tara Flora and her husband Kirk of Eagle Mountain, UT and Debbie Miller of Merrimack, NH; 19 grandchildren and several great grandchildren; two sisters, Fay Begley of West Point, GA, and his twin sister Merle Dougherty and her husband Wilber of Newbury, NH; and nephews, nieces and cousins. A Life Celebration service will take place on Thursday at 11:00 at the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Days Saints, 110 Concord St., Nashua, NH (next to Greely Park). Committal services with military honors will take place on Thursday at 3:00 PM in the NH State Veterans Cemetery, Boscawen. Phaneuf Funeral Homes and Crematorium is in charge of arrangements. For more information or to sign an on-line guest book, go to